Your Blackness Ain't Like Mine

In a piece for Ebony, Jamilah Lemieux says the public suggestions that black people are all the same when it comes to weight, sexuality, marriage or anything else have got to stop. Suggested Reading The Root 100 – 2020 Black History Month – 2022 Hip-Hop 50 Year – 2023 Video will return here when scrolled…

In a piece for Ebony, Jamilah Lemieux says the public suggestions that black people are all the same when it comes to weight, sexuality, marriage or anything else have got to stop.

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I do also wish that if we must hold up a mirror to Blackness constantly in the audience of others so that they may observe us (or so they can observe us observing ourselves), that we made these displays a bit more productive and beneficial to the community-at-large. Instead of speaking out on the dating woes of Black women or why we canโ€™t just lose that last 115 extra pounds, why not talk about the systematic challenges that make it difficult for Black women to access health careโ€”a huge factor in our obesity crisisโ€”or how to combat our lack of easy access to healthy options in the โ€œfood desertsโ€ many of us call home? What about depression? Where is the talk of depression?!?)

Whereโ€™s my critical beatdown from a race scholar like Tim Wise โ€”โ€œWhy White People Are Racistโ€? The Times donโ€™t wanna go there? Whereโ€™s โ€œWhy Black People Canโ€™t Find Jobs?โ€ Whereโ€™s โ€œHow the Prison Industrial Complexโ€”and Not Bad Attitudes and Over-Achievingโ€”Keeps Black Women Single?โ€ I wonโ€™t hold my breath, as I am sure โ€œWhy Black Women Are Sassy,โ€ โ€œWhy Black Men are Violentโ€ and โ€œWhy Black Rappers Are From Brooklynโ€ will emerge sooner than anything I could deem worth the Timesโ€™ time. The Inherent Deficiency Industry is just making way too much money to change the game. Hey, maybe our next romantic comedy hit will be "Why Black Women Are Fat" or "Think Like a Fat Woman, Act Like a Thin One" and we can get the two White guys who wrote "Friends with Benefits" to do the screenplay and take Hollywood by storm once again!

Read Jamilah Lemieux's entire piece at Ebony.

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