Who Gets Paris, Prince and Blanket?

The further postponement of the child custody hearing for the children of the late Michael Jackson is evidence that lawyers for both Debbie Rowe and Katherine Jackson are keenly aware that neither woman is perfectly positioned to withstand the scrutiny of a child custody hearing. But Katherine Jackson has a considerably stronger case for custody…

The further postponement of the child custody hearing for the children of the late Michael Jackson is evidence that lawyers for both Debbie Rowe and Katherine Jackson are keenly aware that neither woman is perfectly positioned to withstand the scrutiny of a child custody hearing. But Katherine Jackson has a considerably stronger case for custody of her grandchildren than Debbie Rowe.

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Keeping up with Roweโ€™s latest statements regarding Michael Jacksonโ€™s children is a full-time job.ย One day she plans to fight for them, another sheโ€™s not interested in the Jackson brood.ย Notice that I refer to them as Jacksonโ€™s children. Media accounts have lately been referring to the children as Roweโ€™s children and to Rowe as the โ€œmotherโ€ย of Paris and Prince. While itโ€™sย alleged that Rowe is the biological mother of the two eldest Jackson children (and Iโ€™d still demand DNA tests if I were Katherine Jacksonโ€™s lawyer), Michael Jackson had exclusive custody under California law. This means that Rowe had, and still has, no legal rights to those children. The fact that Jackson is dead doesnโ€™t change that.

By all accounts, Rowe has never had any relationship with the children. Itโ€™s unclear, at this point, if the children even know that Rowe is their mother. Reports are that the children grew up believing that they didnโ€™t have a mother (these things were possible in Michaelโ€™s world).

Nevertheless, like every other state, California follows a โ€œbest interest of the childโ€ standard for contested child custody cases. This means that considering all of the circumstances, the court will determine what is best for the Jackson children. Roweโ€™s biological connection to the children is just one factor to be considered, and given the fact that she has never lived with them or been a mother to them, it is a very weak factor. The fact that she has gone back and forth over the yearsโ€”reportedly relinquishing her parental rights and then seeking to reinstate them even when Jackson was aliveโ€”is perhaps the strongest point against her.

California courts will also give due weight in its analysis to the wishes of the children. Itโ€™s hard to imagine Paris, Prince Michael and Blanket, who we saw nestled comfortably with the Jackson family at the memorial service for their father, expressing an interest in living with a woman whoโ€™s a virtual and perhaps absolute stranger.

Frankly, Michaelโ€™s revelations about what a dark and threatening figure Joe was in his own life cannot be considered irrelevant to a court determining whether the children should be placed under the care of his wife. If Katherine Jackson was unable to keep Joseph from threatening and intimidating her sons and daughters, a rational court could conclude that a considerably old and frail Katherine is not likely to be in a position to protect Paris, Prince and Blanket from Joeโ€™s mercenary schemes.

Enter Janet Jackson. Anyone who saw the memorial service could see that Aunt Janet was a solid and stabilizing force for Michaelโ€™s children. In the best black mother tradition, she gave Paris โ€œthe lookโ€ when the young girl fussed too much on stage with her purse. And it was Parisโ€™ simple words at the end of the service that fully restored Michael Jackson in the eyes of much of the public. Although Katherine tried to comfort the young girl after her tearful remarks, it was to Janet that Paris turned for comfort.

How can Janet intervene in a process in which sheโ€™s not a party? While she cannot technically intervene in the custody hearingโ€”unless she chooses to petition for custody herselfโ€”she can work with Katherine to make a presentation to the court that assures the court of Janetโ€™s active and unequivocal plan to be a supportive caregiver. If Janet were to file an affidavit at the hearing stating her intention to move in with Katherine to assist with the care of the children, it would significantly help Katherineโ€™s chances of maintaining custody. Such a plan would have several things going for it, all of which are important under California child custody law. It would permit the court to honor the wishes of the childrenโ€™s father that Katherine Jackson be awarded custody. It would also enable all of the siblings to stay together (another hitch in the Rowe custody plan, as she is alleged to be the biological mother of only two of the children).ย 

There would be no disruption of the current arrangement of care for the children, and it would maintain the childrenโ€™s bond with their grandmother, with whom they ostensibly had a relationship before Michaelโ€™s death. Itโ€™s also likely that the childrenโ€™s desire to remain with Katherine would be strengthened by the presence of their young, stable aunt. Finally, Janet looks as though sheโ€™s well, willing and able to protect the children from her fatherโ€™s interference.

Itโ€™s hard to say what will happen at the custody hearing for the Jackson children, but itโ€™s highly unlikely that Rowe will be granted custody. In fact, the court may well determine that itโ€™s not in the best interest of the children for Rowe to even have visitation rights, considering her on-again, off-again interest in being part of the childrenโ€™s lives.ย 

The more likely scenario is that Rowe and her lawyer are working behind the scenes in advance of the hearing to wrest some assurances from Katherine Jackson about the care of the children (including a promise that Joe will be kept away from them). Roweโ€™s power is strongest now, behind the scenes, when her bargaining chip is the promise to drop out of the picture. Given her checkered history, Rowe is unlikely to want to go up against the entire Jackson family led by their formidable attorney, Londell McMillan, in a custody fight. Iโ€™m betting sheโ€™ll attend the hearing and ultimately give her endorsement of Katherine Jackson as sole, physical custodian of the children.

This hearing will really be an opportunity for the court to compel Katherine to offer assurances that she can and will provide appropriate care for her sonโ€™s children. To do that, Janet may have to step up.

Sherrilyn A. Ifill is a regular contributor to The Root.

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