Send Them Away Already

Iโ€™m really glad Kai Wright wrote about a boarding school experiment for kids in poor public schools. He frets about disconnecting teens from their familiesโ€”which could have particularly pernicious effects in black households. I dissent: Having attended boarding school hundreds of miles from home from age 14 on, I think the experience is well worth…

Iโ€™m really glad Kai Wright wrote about a boarding school experiment for kids in poor public schools. He frets about disconnecting teens from their familiesโ€”which could have particularly pernicious effects in black households. I dissent: Having attended boarding school hundreds of miles from home from age 14 on, I think the experience is well worth it. All other things (east coast WASP culture, cough, cough) being equal, boarding school provides first-class, real time instruction on how to fend for yourselfโ€”setting your own bedtime, developing study skills on your own, managing moneyโ€”at an age where these skills are most prone to underdevelopment, perhaps losing out to after-school deliberations over whether to get plain or pepperoni from the local slice joint.

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I don't know tons about the sleep-away plan (read the TIME piece here), but Barack Obama has already come out and said that he favors a longer school day and school year (American kids spend less time in school than just about any industrialized nation). Why not take it a step further and institute the faintly colonial, but more rigorous six-day school week I had in high school?

The big knock on boarding school, actually, seems to come from clingy parents:

"It sounds very exciting, but the devil is in the details," says Ellen Bassuk, president of the National Center on Family Homelessness in Newton, Mass. "What's it like to separate a third- or fifth-grader from their parents?"

My parents left for boarding school in Nigeria at age 11, and so at 14 I was definitely not allowed to whine about my โ€œdisconnectedโ€ educational experience. I know every child is different, but I think the option of greater discipline (and deeper relationships with teachers) should be available to more childrenโ€”particularly from underserved and underperforming school districts. Maybe I'll feel different when I have my own chickadees, but for now, parents and policymakers shouldnโ€™t brandish family ties as a weapon against what could be, as Kai writes, a โ€œholistic education solution.โ€ What do you think?

โ€”DAYO OLOPADE

(cross-posted at XX Factor)

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