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Ever since her withdrawal from the French Open in May due to mental health concerns, tennis superstar Naomi Osaka has been more and more transparent about her journey to protect her mental and emotional well-being.
โI was wondering why I was so affected, I guess,โ she told reporters in August about her decision to pull out of the French Open. โLike what made me not want to do media in the first place. And then I was thinking, I was wondering if I was scared because sometimes I would see headlines of players losing and then the headline the next day would be like โa collapseโ or โtheyโre not that great anymore.โโ
She continued, โSo then I was thinking, me waking up every day, for me, I should feel like Iโm winning, you know? Like, the choice to go out there and play, to go see fans, that people come out and watch me play, that itself is an accomplishment. Iโm not sure when along the way I started desensitizing that. It started not being an accomplishment for me. So I felt like I was very ungrateful on that fact.โ
And now, with a strong chance at winning her third U.S. Open in the coming weeks, the four-time Grand Slam champ is providing us with another glimpse behind the veil. On Sunday, she took to social media to openly reflect on the challenges sheโs faced throughout her career and took responsibility for not appreciating her accomplishments along the way.
โIโve been reflecting over this past year. So grateful for the people around me because the support I feel is completely unparalleled,โ she wrote. โRecently Iโve been asking myself why do I feel the way I do and I realize one of the reasons is because internally I think Iโm never good enough. Iโve never told myself that Iโve done a good job but I do know I constantly tell myself that I suck or I could do better.
โI know in the past some people have called me humble but if I really consider it I think Iโm extremely self deprecating. Every time a new opportunity arises my first thought is, โwow, why me?โ I guess what Iโm trying to say is that Iโm gonna try to celebrate myself and my accomplishments more, I think we all should. You got up in the morning and didnโt procrastinate on something? Champion. Figured something out at work thatโs been bugging you for a while? Absolute legend. Your life is your own and you shouldnโt value yourself on other peopleโs standards.
โI know I give my heart to everything I can and if thatโs not good enough for some people then my apologies but I canโt burden myself with those expectations anymore. Seeing everything thatโs going on in the world I feel like if I wake up in the morning thatโs a win. Thatโs how Iโm coming.โ
This is the sermon we all needed to hear.
I can personally attest to being consumed with achievements and rushing toward the next goal without taking the time to appreciate what Iโve already accomplished. In turn, this makes our lives an endless succession of objectives instead of a collection of moments and experiences that bring us fulfillment and joy.
This new outlook should definitely help the 23-year-old navigate her career better, and I look forward to her sharing additional gems with the rest of us.
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